Energy Shifts That Turn You Into an Industry Leader
Let’s be honest.
You didn’t start your business to just go through the motions and blend in with the crowd.
You’re not here to be another coach with a curated feed, a recycled message, and a vaguely inspirational vibe.
You’re here to lead.
To take up space.
To own your voice.
To become the woman others watch because there’s something about her they can’t look away from.
That doesn’t come from downloading the right content calendar or nailing your messaging.
It comes from your energy.
How you see yourself.
The way you show up before you have a major breakthrough.
These 5 energy shifts are the shifts that’ll take you from someone to potentially work with to sought-after industry leader.
Let’s dive in.
1. From “Going with the flow” → to “Walking in your power”
“Going with the flow” feels harmless—until you realize it’s been keeping you stuck.
It looks like:
Following strategies that worked for your favorite coach, even though they don’t feel good to you.
Sitting on the fence for weeks, unsure of whether to launch or pivot or raise your prices.
Waiting for another certification or someone else’s permission to finally own the role of leader.
Here’s the problem: going with the flow is often just a dressed-up version of avoiding your own leadership.
Walking in your power means you stop waiting and start deciding.
It’s trusting your gut before the data backs it up.
It’s honoring your vision even when it makes no sense on paper.
It’s choosing movement over perfection.
🧨 Ask yourself: Where are you letting indecision steal your power? What would shift if you stopped waiting for clarity and started creating it?
2. From “Trying to fit in” → to “Owning the hell out of who you are”
You say you want to stand out, but you’re still trying to color inside the lines of what a “real” coach or entrepreneur is supposed to be.
You edit your captions so they sound more polished.
You water down your personality so you don’t offend or repel anyone.
You second-guess your boldest ideas because you’ve never seen anyone else do it that way.
But leaders don’t blend in. They don’t wait to be chosen. They show up and choose themselves—fully, loudly, unapologetically.
Owning who you are means bringing your full self to the table.
Your weird sense of humor. Your dry delivery. Your spicy hot takes. Your values. Your edges. Your voice.
You’re not too much. You’re too real for a system that rewards sameness.
🧨 Ask yourself: What part of you are you still hiding in the name of “branding”? And what would it look like to bring that into the spotlight?
3. From “Proving yourself” → to “Rooted conviction”
Proving energy sounds like:
Overexplaining your offers in captions that try to justify the price.
Packing your programs with 47 modules to make them feel “worth it.”
Shrinking in rooms where other women feel more experienced, more successful, more something.
Conviction energy is quiet, but it’s potent.
It’s the pause between your words that makes people lean in.
It’s the “here’s how this works” without the paragraph-long disclaimer.
It’s saying less and having it land more.
Rooted conviction doesn’t come from having the biggest audience or the longest resume.
It comes from self-trust. From knowing that your work speaks for itself and so do you.
🧨 Ask yourself: Where are you still performing? What would shift if you let your presence do the talking?
4. From “Consistency for consistency’s sake” → to “Aligned devotion”
Hustle culture taught you that consistency is everything.
But here’s the thing: consistently showing up in misaligned energy isn’t helping you grow. It’s just draining your energy and creativity.
Posting because “you’re supposed to” is not the same as showing up with clarity, truth, and leadership.
Aligned devotion looks like:
Saying something that actually moves people—even if it’s not “highly shareable.”
Showing up less often but with 10x more power and resonance.
Letting your content breathe so your audience actually feels it.
People don’t follow you for the daily tips. They follow you because they can feel you.
🧨 Ask yourself: Are you showing up from pressure or presence? Is your content building connection or just checking a box?
5. From “Following rules” → to “Creating your own”
You’ve taken the courses. You’ve absorbed the advice. You’ve done what’s “supposed” to work.
And it got you somewhere, but not where you really want to go.
You’re building a business that doesn’t quite feel like yours.
You’ve got traction, but it feels heavy. Uninspired. Boxed in.
You weren’t made to follow someone else’s blueprint.
Leadership begins when you trust your own.
Creating your own rules looks like:
Releasing offers that don’t light you up anymore—even if they’re “working.”
Raising your prices because it feels aligned, not because someone told you to.
Breaking your own content rules when a deeper truth wants to come through.
🧨 Ask yourself: What rule are you still following out of fear? What gets to change when you finally trust yourself more than the algorithm, the industry, or even your favorite mentor?
Let’s land this plane.
You don’t need a new tactic to hit your next level in business.
You need a new way of being.
You need to stop trying to “look like a leader” and start moving like the version of you who already is.
Because once you shift your energy, everything else falls into place:
Your voice gets clearer.
Your content hits harder.
Your offers sell faster.
Your business actually feels like yours again.
This is what makes you that leader.
Not the polished branding or the viral posts, but the decision to show up as your full, powerful self.
No performance.
No pretending.
Just presence, power, and truth.
Want support integrating these shifts and becoming the most magnetic version of you?
DM me LEADER on IG and I’ll share how we can work together—whether that’s through a 1:1 intensive, my mastermind, or the next offer that’s calling your name.
